photo (4)The past few years, I’ve been traveling about once per month. I’m starting to get a little embarrassed because I’m getting a lot of questions about it. How do I pull this off? I’m not a trust fund baby or a travel hacker or a frequent flier. But a lot of people have been asking how I manage to do it so I wanted to share my strategy and show you how it’s possible.

In 2014, I’ve already been to New York, Dallas, San Francisco, Denver, and Cancun. I’ve still got Alaska, Minneapolis, another New York trip, Philadelphia, and an anniversary trip to a yet unknown destination in the works. We scratched Oktoberfest in Germany because there was just too much traveling going on, and it would have been pricey for such a short trip. Also, we want to save up for a BIG trip next year like an African safari or Machu Picchu. We’re leaning toward safari.

I probably sound crazy after talking like that. But here’s how I do it:

1. I visit friends and family who live in cool places and stay with them for free.
I pick places where my friends live (this year’s free stays include New York, Dallas, SF, Denver, Alaska, and Minneapolis), which means lodging is free — and sometimes they feed me for free as well. All of those places involve visiting bridesmaids, friends, and family who flew in for my wedding last year. If they made the trip, I’m returning the favor. So travel is not just about having new experiences, it’s about having new experiences with the people you love and miss.

2. I fly on off days like Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays.
I’m lucky enough to have a flexible schedule where I can fly out on Thursdays and fly in on Tuesdays. Even when we plan a week-long trip, we might book a Saturday through Saturday flight to save a few bucks and have a day to recover before going back to work. Also, Thursday night after 5 PM still counts as a Thursday night price. So sometimes you don’t even have to take too many days off work to save the money. As long as you’re in your hotel bed by midnight, it will feel great to wake up fresh in a new city. The same philosophy goes for Tuesday morning at 5 AM — if you’re okay with going straight to work.

3. I travel off-season (read: not in the summer).
Paris is actually beautiful in February — and not that cold. And we were still able to snowboard in the mountains of Denver in early April instead of during the peak snow season. Sometimes just a week can make the biggest difference ever. We backpacked Europe in June instead of July, and boy did it help. We visited Disneyland on a supposed rainy day in January and walked onto every ride. We’re visiting Alaska in May, just days before tourist season kicks off. Many people forget that “travel” does not have to mean “summer vacation.” Summer is when travel is expensive and places are crowded. Plus, summer in Chicago is awesome so why would we leave? We’re staying put — with the exception of a couple quick trips.

4. I mostly take weekend trips instead of week-long vacations.
Travel doesn’t have to be a week-long commitment. I’ve seen plenty of cities in only three or four-day weekend trips. In fact, I prefer to take more shorter trips than fewer longer trips. There are few cities in this world where I feel I need an entire week to truly experience it. If I’m staying anywhere for a full week, there’s a 99.99% chance I’m visiting at least two different cities, if not three and I’m probably out of the country. Plus, shorter trips = fewer days spent paying for a hotel. (Another tip I’ve used: if you or your spouse get sent on a business trip, try to extend it into a weekend trip on the front end or the back end and at least one of your flights and maybe even a night in a hotel will be paid for.) 

5. Weekend trips don’t have to be close to home.
A lot of “weekend destinations” in your area still probably require you to spend money on a hotel, and time and money on traveling by car. And because they are touristy destinations, the food won’t be cheap. In the Chicago area, great examples would be Door County or Mackinac Island. Why not spend just a tiny bit more — or sometimes less! — and fly somewhere? That’s my two cents. Just because a place is closer to home does not mean it’s going to be a cheap travel experience.

6. I join the rewards program at any hotel I stay at or airline I book with.
I’m trying to get better with this. For example, we flew to Thailand on Cathay Pacific and totally dropped the ball and didn’t sign up for their Asia Miles program. Often you can join late and still add miles from previous flights, but the deadline was six months after my flight. And I missed it. CRAP. That was a huge missed opportunity. In other news, I’m trying to become more loyal to Starwood Hotels and Southwest Airlines so the points add up faster. My loyalty would falter if I found a much cheaper deal somewhere else, but if we’re talking about a $20 difference, it might be better to book with a specific brand and get the rewards.

7. I have a credit card with a great travel rewards program.
I went with the Chase Sapphire Preferred after hearing rave reviews about it.  I basically put everything on there, pay it off each month, and reap the rewards. (Our flights to Anchorage and Juneau were free and those were some EXPENSIVE flights.) There are people like The Points Guy who can help you maximize this kind of stuff, but I’ve yet to dive into all that.

photo8. I hate paying more than $250 for a flight, and I will take a 6 AM flight if it saves me lots of money.
Sometimes a crappy flight time is worth it. For our Alaska trip, we depart Anchorage Sunday night at 11 PM and get in to Chicago at 8 AM Monday morning. Yes, it was our only option, but also sometimes red eyes or early morning flights are worth it. It depends on how much you’re willing to sacrifice for travel. I’m pretty much willing to sacrifice it all. But I hate the idea of leaving at 6 AM on a Sunday when you’ve just had a fun Saturday night. I won’t do that. I’d rather leave at 10 PM Sunday night, which is probably just as cheap.

9. I’m not afraid to use public transportation.
I’ve taken a cab a couple times in New York City and once in Paris. Oh, and all over Thailand because cabs were about $3 USD. Every other city I’ve ever been to has been traversed 100% via a bus or a train. I took a 40 minute $3 bus ride in New Orleans from the airport into the city to avoid the $30 cab ride. I take SuperShuttle to and from the airport in cities that don’t have a cheaper option. (P.S. SuperShuttle is now in New Orleans. I am a frequent SuperShuttle user — you can always find discount codes on Retail Me Not.)

10. I love eating at the best “cheap eats.”
The bigger the city, the more super cheap options you’ll find. Try ethnic eats, dive bars, food trucks, unique grocery stores, delis, farmer’s markets, and the like. Because I’m obsessed with food, we often find ourselves casually “grazing” and sharing dishes throughout the day (so we can try more) instead of sitting down to big, fancy meals. Don’t get me wrong — we love a good meal and will pay a pretty penny for an experience that’s worthy. But one of my favorite things to do when traveling is to find that cheap delicious place the locals love.

11. I generally don’t fork over cash for museums or zoos and instead just experience the city itself.
I know I sound like a culture-hater for saying this, but I’ve really avoided museums lately. I’d rather walk around the busiest street or campus or park or library and people watch. Basically, in every city we visit we just neighborhood hop. Walking around and experiencing the city has proven to be more eye-opening — and cheaper — than locking ourselves in a building. I also have come to despise shopping — it’s all the same and can be bought online anyway — unless it’s a really cool outdoor market or an authentic local experience.

12. I don’t have a dog.
Besides the fact that I’m allergic, not having a dog is directly related to the fact that I like to travel. I’m not paying for my pet to go to a doggie hotel while I’m gone and I’m also not incurring extra expenses that come with dog ownership that could be spent on travel. Basically, I prioritize travel when it comes to how I spend my money.

And that’s basically it. We also cook at home a lot, I don’t buy clothes a lot, I don’t get my hair or nails done often, my gym membership is only $50 a month, we’re a one-car family, and the inside of our house is pretty minimalist — at least for now. Some people like to spend their money on fashion or expensive workout classes or their home or cars or their dogs or going out. I like to spend it on travel. The end.

P.S. I occasionally update my travel blog at travelpology.com.
P.P.S. If you want to feel instant wanderlust, watch this video and you’ll want to hop on a plane immediately. And notice, there are no museum shots here!

This post originally appeared on my personal website at aubreandrus.com.



I was already able to squeeze in a few good trips in 2014 — the benefits of the freelance life! It’s nice to be able to fly out midweek (cheap flights!) and work from anywhere (thanks, Google Drive!). Here are a few snapshots from my latest travels:

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Walking the High Line in NYC.

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Klyde Warren Park’s outdoor Reading Room in Dallas.

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At the Francis Ford Coppola Winery in Sonoma.

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Just another Sunday afternoon in Dolores Park in SF. Read about my geeky encounters in the city here.

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Touring the food truck and brewery scene in Denver.

This post originally appeared on my personal website at aubreandrus.com.



photo 2SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA — What if I told you two of my nerd heroes have strong ties to San Francisco? The first people to pop into your head are likely Steve Jobs and Mark Zuckerberg. Nope. Facebook is in Menlo Park and Apple is in Cupertino, anyway. These two heroes of mine happen to have strong ties to the city by the bay — the Presidio to be exact. Who am I talking about? Walt Disney and George Lucas.

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The Walt Disney Family Museum
Cost: $20/person
Located in the Presidio — a former military base with shockingly beautiful views of the Golden Gate Bridge and the bay — the Walt Disney Family Museum was built exclusively for Disney freaks. Right off the bat I geeked out at the special Oscar statue with seven mini Oscars that Shirley Temple gave Walt Disney. From there, visitors have a lot of reading, watching, and listening to do throughout two stories and 10+ different rooms — it’s the museum that keeps on going! Thanks to Walt’s various TV shows and specials, there is a ton of great audio and video explaining the history of the company from the man himself. Highlights included Walt’s backyard train, The Carolwood Pacific, glimpses into what it was like to work at Disney Animation, and lots of cool family photos that I’m assuming have never been seen before.

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The Letterman Digital Arts Center
Cost: Free
Brace yourself: this is the home of Lucasfilms, Industrial Light and Magic, and LucasArts. GEEK OUT. Before you get too excited, know this: there is only one area that you can enter. It’s a small lobby that looks like a handsome library with some Star Wars movie memorabilia, and it’s only open during regular business hours. Right outside of the lobby is a Yoda fountain. It’s small but it’s quite the statement and quite the photo opportunity. Visitors can stroll around the pristine campus and glimpse into the shaded windows. There’s a Starbucks and plenty of areas to sit outside and enjoy the sun. The gorgeous Palace of Fine Arts is very nearby, which is also worth a stop.

It’s easiest to drive to the Presidio but there is a free shuttle service called the PresidoGo that can take your around the Presidio and to and from downtown depending on what day of the week it is.

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CHICAGO, ILLINOIS — In Chicago, Hot Doug’s is the ultimate in gourmet hot dogs. Their dogs are delicious, their fries are dipped in duck fat, their lines are eternally long, and their hours are short. So what’s a dog lover to do when she needs a fix? Stop by one of these two places for an equally interesting experience and a much quicker queue.

Belly ShackThe Belly Shack
Logan Square/Bucktown

There’s only one dog at The Belly Shack and it’s the Belly Dog. It comes with kimchi salsa with crispy egg noodles on top plus chili pepper spiced fries and a magical curry mayonaise dipping sauce that you won’t be able to stop eating. Look at the image above. I ate it all. Like everything. No questions asked. They also have delicious soft-serve ice cream. Even the “normal” flavor cinnamon caramel was better than expected.

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New Orleans' Best: Beignets at Cafe du MondeNEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA — Beignets. That’s “ben-yays.” It’s French for “donut,” but that doesn’t do it justice. During a five-day stay in New Orleans, we ate beignets every. Single. Morning. That’s how good they are.

The French Quarter institution Cafe du Monde serves a plate of three beignets for just $2. A chicory-based cafe au lait costs $2. That means for $4, you can have a fabulous breakfast — or afternoon snack or late-night splurge — in the heart of New Orleans. While licking powdered sugar from your fingers, you’ll watch the carriages pass by along Decatur Street, you’ll hear jazz musicians play, and you’ll get a great glimpse of St. Louis Cathedral in Jackson Square just across the street.


The lines are long at Cafe du Monde (go late at night to avoid the wait) but the 24-hour cafe is an act in Darwinism. When a table opens, you take it. Sometimes a civil line forms, but you can decide whether or not wait in it. No waitress is going to seat you. They’re too busy dropping powdered sugar bombs into the sea of two-top tables. Once you sit, a waitress will eventually swing by to take your order, which will be a cafe au lait and a plate of beignets — don’t stray from tradition. This is what people have been ordering since 1862!

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